Will Porn Ever Stop?
Man should not feel guilty
for being sexually attracted to a woman.
Being sexually attracted to a woman is showing a man’s appreciation
towards beauty. It is the man’s life
force, he was born to be this way, it is natural, it is beautiful. It should not be repressed; it should be
expressed in a responsible way.
Women should never be
forced into pornography, it should be something that they truly wish to do
within, it should be something that they love to do. If a woman is forced into pornography, I see
that it is wrong. But if she is not
forced and she does it because she truly has that desire to express herself in
that way, then I do not oppose it.
There is nothing wrong with
nudity, being nude is beautiful, we are born nude, we are not born with
clothes. Animals do not wear clothes they
live in nudity. We have been conditioned
to believe that nudity is wrong, but it is not wrong, nudity is beautiful. Clothes should be here for a functional
purpose but not as a way to cover up the beauty of our bodies. If we are more comfortable with nudity, then
we will naturally become more comfortable with sex, then we will not be
repressed.
Clothes can serve the
purpose of protecting our bodies from the elements of the weather but certain
times clothes can hinder our freedom of physical movement, like when we are
swimming, taking a bath, or wish to enjoy a full body massage. The clothes get in the way of our ability to
enjoy certain activities. When it is
very hot, sometimes we just want to be naked, when it is cold, clothes become
our protective shield.
The more comfortable we are
with our bodies, the more comfortable we will be with sex, we will not view sex
as something ugly but rather something beautiful. If you look in the mirror and you yourself
see your body as something ugly, then yes, you will want to cover up your body
with clothes so that you are not constantly reminded of how ugly you are. But if you have a beautiful body, then you
will be confident and comfortable with expressing this beauty. And this is what pornography is, an
expression of the body, an appreciation towards physical beauty and even the
beauty of expressing the unique sounds of intimacy. As humans we are naturally
drawn towards anything that is beautiful.
This is not a sin.
But we have turned
nakedness into sin and that is why pornography is seen as sin. Pornography is societies method of giving
millions of people a feeling of false intimacy, real intimacy is nourishing for
the soul, and false intimacy is a quick replacement method for the masses. It is like the difference between real food
from the garden and food that is scientifically engineered to be taken as a
pill.
With no real intimacy,
pornography serves as a replacement. It
is a quick fix for love and affection.
Real love and affection occurs between two human beings in privacy. Those who do not have love and affection can
turn towards pornography for a temporary feeling of intimacy. The desire towards pornography shows a desire
towards love and affection.
A man can be addicted to
pornography and actually prefer pornography over the real live woman. Like a man who enjoys playing a football
video game but not actually wishing to play real football himself. Being single for ones entire life with the
private viewing of pornography and practicing masturbation is not too different
than the conscious decision to become celibate for ones entire life. In a way, this is an expression of
celibacy. If the majority of the
population becomes celibate and actually prefers to masturbate to pornography
rather than engage in real intimate relations, this can actually serve to
benefit the world that is overpopulated.
Being involved in an
intimate relationship while viewing pornography can become a detriment to the
relationship if your lover does not accept the practice. In many cases jealousy from a man’s partner
becomes a strong barrier in allowing a man to enjoy both the benefits of
pornography and the benefits of real intimacy.
The woman may view pornography as a threat.
The man can become fixated
on pornographic videos and images that are not real and start holding an
unrealistic standard of beauty towards the real women of this world. Videos and images do not age, deteriorate,
and change in the same way that real humans do.
It is like comparing a human to a machine. A human is not a machine, and if you expect a
human to operate as a machine, you will be disappointed.
Men can start to develop an
expectation for woman to become like a machine.
To be perfect like the image or what they see on video. This can become a huge detriment to the
relationship, as it will be impossible for the woman to become a machine. It is like the man who prefers to drive
rather than walk, run, or ride a bicycle.
It is like the man who prefers to use the elevator rather than walk up
the stairs.
We are a society that is
becoming dependent on machines. We are
going further and further away from nature.
A man who prefers pornography over a real woman, is a man who is choosing
a machine over a real woman, like the woman who chooses the plastic flowers
over the real flowers, like the woman who chooses the breast implants over her
real breasts, like the person who would rather play videos games than to engage
in live games.
Things
are becoming more and more automated.
People are taking vitamin pills rather than eating real nutritious
foods. People are watching cartoon types
of movies instead of attending real plays with actors on stage. Men are essentially falling in love with an
image, not the real thing. The real
thing is hard to reproduce. An image is
easy to reproduce. Getting millions of
men to masturbate and ejaculate from an image is much easier than finding
millions of men a real woman to make love to.
Helping a man find real love is very difficult; supplying a man with a
quick fix from pornography is quite simple.
Like any other drugs, soon the addiction begins, and that is why the
pornography industry is a multi-billion dollar industry even though it is
operating underground beneath the co
