Friday, June 6, 2014
Big Brother Vs Little Brother
Hello FMK blog, I have a personal issue with family (my little brother to be clear). Well it goes like this he wants to prove himself to me. In the past we will fight all the time because we were little, you know brothers argue & fight all the time. I would always win because I was bigger & stronger than he was. Now that we both are grown up he really wants to fight just to prove he can finally beat me. Now I dont know how to respond to this. Should I just fight my brother & get it over with or should I just backdown. Im sure if I backdown hes going to try and provoke me or get me mad enough to face him. Not sure how to go through with this?
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If you fight him again and you win, he is going to keep asking to fight until he win I guess?
ReplyDeleteI would say backdown and let things go. That's not the best solution, but it is something.
And I think I've been through this before with my little bro/cousin? I can't remember how I handled it though.
Well yeah he said he'll stop if he loses or wins, he just wants to fight seriously 1 time. But your right anyway its no point i'll just backdown.
DeleteI advise to never provoke any games of competition that leads towards violence and injury but to replace those competitive energies with games and exercises that are healthier in nature, like competing with pushups, pullups, situps, squats, arm wrestle, etc. That is a healthier and safer method to assess who has a greater level of athleticism. And then when they can out do you in whatever, just acknowledge that with humbleness and realize that you always have room for improvement.
ReplyDeleteYou know what thats a great idea, I never thought of that. I mean he is family & hurting each other just brings around negative energy. A test of fitness sounds more better anyway i'll try that with him. Thanks
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