My father anounce me that his kidneys are finished, they are functionning only at 20 per cent of their capacity, he needs a new one. At first, when he told me that, it was hard, but now, i can say that i accepted the experience.
The second situation is about my uncle, he died this past Sunday morning. And i saw him a couple hours before this past Saturday and he seemed fine. Tho he almost died in my arms because of heart failure this past Christmas, i didn't think he would die this past Sunday. He will be remembered as a sensitive person, a generous one and a godfather for my family on my mother side. He shared with me some of the craziest stories i ever heard, he always been kind with me. He liked to party a lot, and share his wealth with others. He came to see me with his friend when i was in the psychiatric aisle two times. I could go on and on, i could write a book about my uncle, but i will just end this blog post by saying that, what helped me take this experience as neither good or bad, as just an experience is the fact that i never took him for granted, i told him everything i wanted to tell him, i've had some good times with him, and i feel in a way that those times was like a final good bye. May his soul rest in peace.