Will Porn Ever Stop?

Will Porn Ever Stop?

Man should not feel guilty for being sexually attracted to a woman.  Being sexually attracted to a woman is showing a man’s appreciation towards beauty.  It is the man’s life force, he was born to be this way, it is natural, it is beautiful.  It should not be repressed; it should be expressed in a responsible way. 

Women should never be forced into pornography, it should be something that they truly wish to do within, it should be something that they love to do.  If a woman is forced into pornography, I see that it is wrong.  But if she is not forced and she does it because she truly has that desire to express herself in that way, then I do not oppose it. 

There is nothing wrong with nudity, being nude is beautiful, we are born nude, we are not born with clothes.  Animals do not wear clothes they live in nudity.  We have been conditioned to believe that nudity is wrong, but it is not wrong, nudity is beautiful.  Clothes should be here for a functional purpose but not as a way to cover up the beauty of our bodies.  If we are more comfortable with nudity, then we will naturally become more comfortable with sex, then we will not be repressed. 

Clothes can serve the purpose of protecting our bodies from the elements of the weather but certain times clothes can hinder our freedom of physical movement, like when we are swimming, taking a bath, or wish to enjoy a full body massage.  The clothes get in the way of our ability to enjoy certain activities.  When it is very hot, sometimes we just want to be naked, when it is cold, clothes become our protective shield. 

The more comfortable we are with our bodies, the more comfortable we will be with sex, we will not view sex as something ugly but rather something beautiful.  If you look in the mirror and you yourself see your body as something ugly, then yes, you will want to cover up your body with clothes so that you are not constantly reminded of how ugly you are.  But if you have a beautiful body, then you will be confident and comfortable with expressing this beauty.  And this is what pornography is, an expression of the body, an appreciation towards physical beauty and even the beauty of expressing the unique sounds of intimacy. As humans we are naturally drawn towards anything that is beautiful.  This is not a sin. 

But we have turned nakedness into sin and that is why pornography is seen as sin.  Pornography is societies method of giving millions of people a feeling of false intimacy, real intimacy is nourishing for the soul, and false intimacy is a quick replacement method for the masses.  It is like the difference between real food from the garden and food that is scientifically engineered to be taken as a pill. 

With no real intimacy, pornography serves as a replacement.  It is a quick fix for love and affection.  Real love and affection occurs between two human beings in privacy.  Those who do not have love and affection can turn towards pornography for a temporary feeling of intimacy.  The desire towards pornography shows a desire towards love and affection. 

A man can be addicted to pornography and actually prefer pornography over the real live woman.  Like a man who enjoys playing a football video game but not actually wishing to play real football himself.  Being single for ones entire life with the private viewing of pornography and practicing masturbation is not too different than the conscious decision to become celibate for ones entire life.  In a way, this is an expression of celibacy.  If the majority of the population becomes celibate and actually prefers to masturbate to pornography rather than engage in real intimate relations, this can actually serve to benefit the world that is overpopulated. 

Being involved in an intimate relationship while viewing pornography can become a detriment to the relationship if your lover does not accept the practice.  In many cases jealousy from a man’s partner becomes a strong barrier in allowing a man to enjoy both the benefits of pornography and the benefits of real intimacy.  The woman may view pornography as a threat. 

The man can become fixated on pornographic videos and images that are not real and start holding an unrealistic standard of beauty towards the real women of this world.  Videos and images do not age, deteriorate, and change in the same way that real humans do.  It is like comparing a human to a machine.  A human is not a machine, and if you expect a human to operate as a machine, you will be disappointed. 

Men can start to develop an expectation for woman to become like a machine.  To be perfect like the image or what they see on video.  This can become a huge detriment to the relationship, as it will be impossible for the woman to become a machine.  It is like the man who prefers to drive rather than walk, run, or ride a bicycle.  It is like the man who prefers to use the elevator rather than walk up the stairs. 

We are a society that is becoming dependent on machines.  We are going further and further away from nature.  A man who prefers pornography over a real woman, is a man who is choosing a machine over a real woman, like the woman who chooses the plastic flowers over the real flowers, like the woman who chooses the breast implants over her real breasts, like the person who would rather play videos games than to engage in live games. 

Things are becoming more and more automated.  People are taking vitamin pills rather than eating real nutritious foods.  People are watching cartoon types of movies instead of attending real plays with actors on stage.  Men are essentially falling in love with an image, not the real thing.  The real thing is hard to reproduce.  An image is easy to reproduce.  Getting millions of men to masturbate and ejaculate from an image is much easier than finding millions of men a real woman to make love to.  Helping a man find real love is very difficult; supplying a man with a quick fix from pornography is quite simple.  Like any other drugs, soon the addiction begins, and that is why the pornography industry is a multi-billion dollar industry even though it is operating underground beneath the co