Since I was enlightened, I’ve never agreed with the concept of marriage. It is unnatural for a human being to be completely monogamous with just one human being for the entirety of our lives. By nature we are meant to be attracted to beautiful things and this includes beautiful humans. Marriage is an attempt to deny this natural attraction to others. Marriage seeks to force us to be attracted to only one human being for the entirety of our lives. This is unnatural, this leads us towards suppression, suppression then leads us towards mental illness. Mental illness comes in the form of jealousy & possessiveness.
Imagine a married couple being together for 10 years with 5 children in happiness. Imagine the husband giving just one woman a simple hug or a showing of affection and then the wife being so inflamed with jealousy that she wishes to throw away the entire 10 marriage & ruin the lives of the 5 children just because of this.
This is happening over and over in all marriages across the country. We are so ready to pick up and leave because our “spouse” showed affection towards another human being. How fucking ridiculous is this shit!?
Imagine a married couple being together for 10 years being completely sexually exclusive. And just for one day, the man OR woman decided to be intimate with another, and then based on that one single action alone, the entire marriage is thrown down the drain, how fucking ridiculous is this shit!? That’s like throwing somebody in jail who has had a perfect driving record for 10 years that just accidently gets in a very minor traffic accident. The person had a perfect driving record for 10 years! Your going to throw him in jail for one minor traffic accident?
Marriage is a fucked up idea & a fucked up way of living, it drives people mentally insane. We are meant to be free & we are meant to love based on this freedom. We are not meant to be forced to be together by law FOREVER.
Imagine you just got divorced from your husband or wife for “cheating” on you 1 time in a span of 10 years. You spend 2 years trying to recover from the psychological damage that has occurred to you because your spouse shared his or her body with another human being in intimacy. After going to the psychologist for many years now you feel you are ready to date again. You start dating and fucking a new stranger of whom you “trust.” You don’t know the true history of this stranger, you never have and you never will. But the truth is that this stranger has had sex with at least 10 multiple partners within the last month. But yet you are ready and willing to give yourself to this stranger over your former husband or wife who only had one different sex partner in the last 10 years! Shit is ridiculous and does not make sense at all.
If you are to get a divorce, you should be celibate, because if not, you are just going to repeat the same cycle over again, it’s the same damn shit. There is no such thing as true monogamy, it does not exist. It is a figment of your imagination that has been constantly fed to your brain by the media and society. Meet one “cheating” husband or wife and the next person you meet will be the same. The only difference is in degrees. One husband or wife may be able to last 20 years without being affectionate with someone else while another may only be able to last 20 days.
It’s fucking sad how we have to hide sex and affection away from public view like it is fucking crack or some shit. Affection and love is a beautiful thing but us humans have corrupted it so bad that we have turned it into something completely ugly, and we label this shit marriage. I say fuck Marriage like the way I say fuck MMA, the shit is fucking garbage. We should be bounded by Love & freewill, not bounded by Law.