Your spouse must grow with you spiritually, if she does not, she becomes your handicap. If you’re not a smoker, but your spouse loves cigarettes and fills up the entire home with smoke, it will fuck up your health. If your spouse is not spiritually developed & she fills up the entire home with negative energy, it will fuck you up psychologically. Your spouse needs to grow as you grow, if she fails to grow and refuses to grow, it may be best to move forward. If you take care of your physical health but your spouse does not, you may quickly lose your attraction towards her. Not everyone is guaranteed to grow and develop, some people move backwards in life. If your spouse is moving backwards and you are moving forward, it may be best to separate in order for you to grow to your full potential.