People will use marriage to enhance their egos. You will see it on FaceBook all the
time. People will actually think they
are better than you because they are married and you are not. Women will compare how much their rings are
worth and make themselves feel good if their rings are of greater value than
yours. People will compare how
extravagant their weddings are compared to other weddings and make themselves
feel good about themselves.
People will compare how many children they have compared to
others and make themselves feel good about themselves. People will compare how successful their
children have become compared to others and make themselves feel good about
themselves. People will find any and all
ways to enhance their egos. Marriage is
not used as a way to symbolize love but it rather is used as a way to enhance
the ego.
People like to brag to others, “look how much my ring costs,”
“look how extravagant my wedding is,” “look how beautiful our wedding photos
are,” “look how beautiful my wedding dress is,” “look how beautiful our kids
are,” “look how happily married we are,” “look how perfect our life is,” “don’t
you wish you have the life that we have?” “aren’t I such a lucky person.”
It really is ridiculous and you clearly see this shit all over
FaceBook, the big egos craving for attention and recognition. And for what?
Just because they are married, wow.
Oh people love to brag about their weddings. I don't if I am going to get married but couple of years ago I was talking to one of my best friends about marriage. She told me that marriage does not make you love the person more and she right. If you want to spend the rest of your life with the one just go ahead and do it! You do not need the priest, judge or your families and friends to tell you that. Anyway, yesterday I logged on Skype and I could not see you. Was everything ok?
ReplyDelete